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Motherly relationship (Mother's Day )

What is mother

 This question is the most difficult for me. All that will be written, spoken and read from me - whenever there is a glimpse of a great form in any word. I can not speak on my mother's words - I would like to say something to a woman today. When referring to the woman, I will go to the mother's character. Then I can say something about mother.
Woman's womanhood has been a very deep subject for me. I didn't even care about the man. When the children were also playing together, I used to look at the girl first. I can say that I was a lover of girlhood.
If there is a quarrel between two people in someone's house, then there is no doubt, I used to attack man. In my view, the woman was a very simple thing.
Despite seeing my mother at home, I would also support the woman.
Now the game of thinking was about to change. In Canada, I encountered one such woman that upon seeing that woman, my thinking changed. After that, there was some wisdom in me. How to see a man and how to see a woman.
This woman hit my head in such a way that I could never be blinded by anyone again. Woman: Which was an ideal thing for me. My soul blushed when I saw the woman. But since this successful woman met me - I came to know that where I had made a mistake. Any woman whom I had accepted - now I also started to look at her carefully so that I never make any mistake again.
I loved womanhood and masculinity very much. Why? I did not know. Life never explained anything with love. Always continued to explain by slapping.
Now I had seen a very poor form of the woman. It was not digestible - life was digested.
Completely failed, the blessings of some unknown leader handed over my life to nature. If I changed my direction, the situation had to change. The nature was my master and the universe became my school. My subject was silent - because I wanted a degree of freedom now. How my love-filled spirit had made me goofy, because I could not bear it. Or how to say that I did not want to bear nor did any such incident happen to me from now on.
 I did not have to endure.  
So now I started thinking before hand that I do not have any pain later.
My silent dimension also made me learn about woman and man.
Every relationship is very sweet. But the woman's motherly relationship is unique and deep.
Woman: mother's role is great.
Whatever is in life, it comes to its height. 
Relationship or tree. 
Moment or century. 
Anything anyone
When the relation between the woman and the man is established, 
the child is bound to happen. 
When the child is in the womb, what is the duty of the woman at that time
 - has she been given a sense of it or not.
On the second day of marriage, everyone starts asking her when to give us a good news?
System malfunction.
Man does not know anything about manhood  - woman does not even realize womanhood. Body system is female, is nature also a female?
The baby is about to be born - it is very important for the mother to be effective.
 The child is in the womb - a woman can do a lot in herself,
 no need to tell anything to anybody. 
The mother's rating is high and the mother's fault becomes deeper
 than all when the child goes wrong.
 Mother's character is like God for her child.
 Mother's duty to produce a child is not fulfilled.
 Producing a child is only 5% Karma. 95% remains. Whether it is anything to do with the child, it is mother's duty to learn goodness first of all.
 Under no circumstances can pretend. Whatever the condition and circumstances, 
when the child is in the womb, a lot can happen quietly. 
Nobody can have any admission in this.
When nature explained this reality to me, 
I discovered it at a very deep and very large level.
I found the woman more vulnerable. 
Not from wife's relationship but mother's relationship. 
Because mother is the root of that tree ( child). If a son like Krishna Buddha Jesus and Hazrat Muhammad is born then the mother's name is taken
 and if born like Hitler, the mother's name is also taken. 
When any child maintains his human nature, 
it is said that one  wishes to see his mother.
When Hazrat Muhammad said that the right  (Haq ) of the woman is on the son of all relations
 and the right of the man is on his wife more than all relationships.
 Go to the depths of this decree- You will feel that this decree has led to the rise of the universe.
It is so deep that when I went into the depth of this, I was surprised what to say. Just the tenderness of eyes became my Namaaz (prayer).
The height of the mother reaches there, when she becomes a mother for all from the soul. Handling a child beautifully, makes that woman the mother of all.
Mother: The woman is first, then the mother. 
The right to a man belongs to a woman, even if the relationship is mother.
 The mother makes the child healthy human, no one else can make it.
 Just like this woman is learning that she has given her right to a man 
- that right will make her beautiful mother and mother will make her son beautiful human.

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माँ क्या है ?

यह सवाल मेरे लिए सब से कठिन है। मेरे से वो सब लिखा जाएगा, बोला जाएगा और पढ़ा  भी जाएगा -जब किसी भी लफ्ज़ में  ही विराट रूप की झलक हो।  माँ लफ्ज़ पर मैं नहीं बोल सकती - आज कुछ औरत पर कहना चाहूंगी।  औरत का ज़िक्र करते करते जब माँ के किरदार पर  जाऊँगी।  तब मैं कुछ माँ के बारे में कह सकती हूँ। 
औरत का औरतपन मेरे लिए बहुत गहरा सब्जेक्ट रहा है। मर्द की और  तो मेरा ध्यान जाता ही नहीं था।  बच्चे भी साथ साथ खेल रहे होतें तो मेरी नज़र पहले लड़की पर ही पड़ती थी।  ऐसे कह सकती हूँ कि मैं लड़की-ज़ात की दीवानी थी।  
अगर किसी के घर में  दो लोगों का झगड़ा हो तो मेरा शक ही नहीं ,मेरा वार आदमी पर  होता था।  मेरी नज़र में औरत बहुत ही सीधी- सादी  कोमल सी चीज़ थी। 
घर मैं अपनी माँ को देखने के बावज़ूद भी मैं औरत का ही साथ देती। 
अब सोच की खेल पलटन वाली थी।  कनाडा में मेरा एक ऐसी औरत से आमना-सहमना हुआ कि उस औरत को देख कर मेरी सोच बदल गई।  उस के बाद मेरे में कुछ सोचने की अक्ल आई ।  कैसे आदमी को दखना है और कैसे औरत को देखना है। 
इस औरत ने मेरी सोच पर ऐसे चांटे मारे कि मैं फिर कभी अंधी हो कि किसी की भी साइड  ना ले सकी। औरत: जो मेरे लिए आइडियल चीज़ थी। औरत को देख कर मेरी रूह खिल उठती थी।  पर जब से यह कामयाब औरत मेरे से मिली थी- तो मेरे को पता चला कि मेरे से कहाँ कहाँ पर गलती  हुई थी।  जिस किसी औरत को भी मैंने मान दिया था- अब मैं उस को भी ग़ौर से देखने लग पड़ी कि फिर से मैं कभी कोई भूल ना कर दूँ।   
मेरे को औरतपन और मर्दपन बहुत ही प्यारा लगता था।  क्यों? मैं नहीं जानती थी। ज़िंदगी ने प्यार से कभी कुछ समझाया ही नहीं।  सदा थपड़ मार कर ही समझाती रही। 
अब मैंने औरत का बहुत ही घटिया रूप देख लिया था। हजम हो नहीं रहा था- ज़िंदगी ने हज़म करवा दिया।  
पूरी तरह फेल हुई को, किसी अज्ञात रहनुमा की दुआ ने मेरी ज़िंदगी कुदरत को सौप दी।  मेरी दिशा बदली तो दशा बदलनी ही थी।  कुदरत गुरु और ब्रह्माण्ड मेरा स्कूल बन गया।   मेरा सब्जेक्ट चुप था - क्योंकि मेरे को अब डिग्री आज़ादी की चाहिए थी। मेरे को मेरी प्यार भरी भावना ने कैसे कैसे बेवक़ूफ़ बना दिया था, जों मेरे से सहन नहीं हो रहा था।  या कैसे कहो कि मैं सहन करना नहीं चाहती थी और ना ही आगे से मेरे साथ ऐसी कोई घटना घटे।  मैंने सहना ही नहीं था।  सो सोच -समझ कर अब चलने लगी कि मेरे को भी बाद में कोई दर्द न हो- इस तरह से काम करूं। 
मेरे चुप डायमेंशन ने, मेरे को औरत और आदमी के बारे में भी सीख दी। 
रिश्ता हर एक बहुत प्यारा है।  पर औरत का माँ भरा सम्बन्ध सब से अनूठा और गहरा है। 
औरत: जब माँ का किरदार अदा करती है , बहुत बढ़िया। 
ध्यान से समझने की बात मैंने अब कहनी है , ज़रूर ध्यान से समझना - 
सुनना नहीं समझना। 
ज़िंदगी की कोई भी चीज़ है, उस की ऊंचाई आती ही है।  रिश्ता हो या पेड़। पल हो या सदी।  कुछ भी कोई भी। 
जब औरत और आदमी की रिलेशन बन ही गई ,तो बच्चा तो होना ही है। जब बच्चा गर्भ में होता है , उस वक़्त औरत का फ़र्ज़ क्या है - क्या उस को यह समझ दी गई है कि नहीं। 
विवाह के दूजे दिन ही उस को पूछना शुरू हो जाता है कि ख़ुशख़बरी कब देनी है ?
सिस्टम में बहुत खराबी है। 
आदमी को आदमीयत का कुछ पता नहीं - औरत को औरतपन का अहसास भी नहीं।  जिस्म औरत का है, क्या सुभाव भी औरत है ?
बच्चा पैदा होने वाला है -माँ का प्रभावशाली होना बहुत ज़रूरी है। बच्चा गर्भ में है- औरत अपने आप में बहुत कुछ कर सकती है, किसी कुछ बताने की ज़रूरत नहीं। माँ का ही दर्ज़ा ऊँचा है और माँ का ही कसूर सब से गहरा हो जाता है, जब बच्चा ग़लत  हो जाता है।  माँ का किरदार रब्ब जैसा है।  बच्चा पैदा करने माँ का फ़र्ज़ पूरा नहीं होता।  बच्चा पैदा करना तो सिर्फ ५% कर्मा है।  ९५% बाकी रह जाता है। चाहे बच्चे के साथ कुछ भी उमीद जुडी हो -सब से पहले नेकी सीखना माँ का फ़र्ज़ है। किसी भी हालात की बहानेबाज़ी नहीं चल सकती।  हालत और हालात कैसे भी हो,पर जब बच्चा गर्भ में है, तो चुपचाप बहुत कुछ हो सकता है।  इस में किसी की भी कोई भी दाखिलन्दाज़ी हो ही नहीं सकती। 
जब मेरे को कुदरत ने यह असलियत समझाई, तो मैंने बहुत गहरा और बहुत बड़े लेवल पर इस की खोज की। 
औरत को ज़्यादा कसूरवार पाया।  बीवी के रिश्ते से नहीं माँ के रिश्ते से।  क्योंकि माँ उस पेड़ की जड़ है।  अगर कृष्णा बुद्धा जीसस और हज़रत मुहम्मद जैसा बेटा पैदा होता है तो माँ का नाम लिया जाता है और अगर हिटलर जैसा पैदा होता है तो भी माँ का नाम लिया जाता है। जब कोई भी आदमी अपनी आदमियत को बरक़रार रखता है  ऐसे ही कहा जाता है कि इस की माँ को देखने को दिल करता है। 
जब हज़रत मुहम्मद ने फ़रमाया कि औरत  का हक़ सब से ज़्यादा बेटे पर है और आदमी का हक़ सब से ज़्यादा उस की बीवी पर है। इस फरमान की गहराई तक जाना- आप को ऐसा लगेगा कि इस फ़रमान से ही ब्रह्माण्ड की उत्तपति हुई है। 
इतनी गहरी बात है कि जब मं इस की गहराई में गई तो हैरान रह गई कि क्या कहूँ ? बस आँखों की नमि ही मेरी नमाज़ बन गई। 
माँ की ऊंचाई वहां तक जाती है ,जब वो रूह से सब केलिए माँ बन जाती है।एक बच्चे की पलना की खूबसूरत कामयाबी  सब की माँ बना देती है। एक बच्चे को ही ख़ूबसूरती से संभालना, उस औरत को सब की माँ बना देता है।
माँ : औरत पहले है ,बाद में माँ।  आदमी पर हक़ तो एक औरत का ही है, चाहे रिश्ता माँ हो। माँ ही  बच्चे को तंदरुस्त इंसान बनाती है -वो कोई और नहीं बना सकता।  ऐसे ही औरत सीख रही है कि उस ने अपने पर हक़ एक आदमी को दिया है-- वो हक़ ही उस को सोहनी माँ बनाएगा और माँ ही बेटे को सोहना इंसान बनाएगी। 


Blessings

Life is God experiencing Self

Thank you to Nature for the feelings she gave me,  the trees, mountains,  her many lakes and oceans,  for the sun sets of color,  the clouds that dance in the sky,  for everything she gives wanting nothing  but love in return!!! Thanks You to The world:  For all the good and bad people  I have encountered along the road,  for the lessons you taught me, even if they where bad,  it was still a good lesson to be learned  and for this I thank you... Blessings!!!

I experience myself as the conscious

'There is no "I" but I.' 'Then is there no "you" but you?' 'I, always I,' 'Gives me to think, I will meditate upon it.' 'Do nothing of the kind!'  'To "meditate" means using split-mind:  just look from within and see  - see  that so it Is!  Stop splitting and stay Whole!' Whatever we may be, we are being 'lived'.  We are not traveling, as we think:  we are being 'travelled'.

What a Spring in my life!

When I am absent there is no Time,  and it is always the present   Today: I will walk through the day with spring in my step,  a smile in my body  and  I will have nothing to say about my healthy life,  wow!  I will enjoy the aroma of nature,  and  the flowering from the inside of me  to the outside of me! Will we go through our day today smiling?

Everything is related to everything else ( We are one )

I will enjoy the travels of my free spirit  and the amazing journeys within my Feelings.  I will wake up fresh,  clear and ready to journey  through the seconds of my life  in my well rested physical body!!!  It always amazes me  how I am all one Mentally,  physically,  emotionally  and spiritually  when I awaken!  Wow!  What a beautiful Journey  and  its Beauty

It is amazing how Infinite we are

When I wake up early and go for a walk early  enough to see the sunrise,  if I keep still and watch for a few minutes  I can actually enter in the moment of this movement.  In all my experience,  I become just Energetic aware that I am here,  standing at this special moment on the surface of this special spot;  and  this spot is going, going for away toward the stars  but very close to me,  then  galaxy, more stars,  more wonderful  - unique and amazing colors  then more universe, more and more billions miles away,  like before Jesus- before birth of this planet,  but close, more close, In me -  in myself.  And  this very moment experiencing the whole universe along with me,  in me  while I feel I am infinite  and  I am beyond the universe

Spend life with who makes you happy ( The real artist )

aelolive.com I will prepare and one day I have a chance...  because of my 'Strong -Courage'  and  'Aroma of my Trust'...  Because my life knows that Courage  and  Trust is the commitment to begin  without any guarantee of success BLESSINGS!!! Every morning we are born again: Every time Shaheer wake up a new her arrives with the new moment This moment: 'She is different than she was yesterday' The time is new because of her feeling, The day is new because of her thinking, The moment is new because of her experience and She is new because of this whole life. Every moment she change, her world changes and she is reborn into what she choose to be in this moment. She is creating her moments today with new clarity, new thought and new meaning.

God is the Source of the intelligent universe

aelolive.com Here, Where all of us exist, Here- right Here, where the two dimensions meet. Natural and spiritual. These dimensions are one. This is pure- real and the holy way... Lets go together for this wonderful and shrine pilgrimage...# 1 * Understanding comes when we, you and I, meet on the same level at the same time. aelolive.com Here, Where all of us exist, Here- right Here, where the two dimensions meet. Natural and spiritual. These dimensions are one. This is pure- real and the holy way... Lets go together for this wonderful and shrine pilgrimage...# 2 When love starts with me, and is given to me freely by me, it sure is easy to remember that it is me that is making memories for me. Life is for living, learning and making memories to create a good day, moment by wonderful moment! aelolive.com * Our thirst is Our guru My preceptor is my thirst, my life, my holy and ascetic practices, and my circumstances. However, the

Ceremony (Who are you)

The Gift: Life is a ceremony where we are here as friends and families to celebrate this occasion. Today’s accelerated moments which we gain from our advance technology has enabled us to travel through the universe, and strengthens our thirst of life.    I am fortunate enough to see and meet you all. The uniqueness of this celebration is that we ourselves are hosts and guests, So today we are meeting, with wishes of peace and happiness.  In this ceremony of life, my heart wished to present a gift. The gift should be of something which can bring hope of a happy life.    With     the grace of God, a pure thought was born which I am gifting today.   A new, unique and virgin view of point, with which we will encounter life.  Wise have said, “If our first step is placed with understanding then our destination becomes easier, and also our path, pleasant.” Paint your own portrait, then you will realize.How difficult it is, to give yourself any face This line

Enjoy the beauty of a silence. (purity )

O, My Naughty Shaheer! First, I see you. You are always in My sight. And then I guide you lightly. Sometimes strongly. I hold a sword of love, and with this sword, I vanquish all ills that never belonged in your heart in the first place. I vanquish ill will. I vanquish all that which is opposed to love. Beloveds, in My Presence, what can you do but love? What barrier to love can exist when you are surrounded by My love, and you sink into My love. You float on a raft o f My love. Where else would you want to be? Where else is there for you to be? There is nowhere else but right here right now with Me. Do not bow. Jump instead. God is with you. This is an occasion for joy. Be joy then and forevermore, for I am always with you, and you are always with Me. Oneness is Our lot! Oneness is Our fortune. Oneness is Our Reality. It is the only Reality that is. You and I are One Experience!!! Always Your from Heart, The Sprightliness