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The relationship means that the two sides enjoy each other ( Happy Father's Day)


I was surprised that I had never been shy with anyone, only you had been shy with the Bapu ji (father). The rest of the house is not from any man - just from my Bapu ji, why? No one could solve this question for me, just waiting for time. Call it time or understanding; For me both are the same.
I once saw that father and me were left in the room. We were both having dinner. Maa went out to get something. I saw that my eyesight and Bapu ji's eyes were united, then both of us started looking down immediately. Right now I was thinking that I eat the rest of the food outside, but before me Bapu ji got up and went out.
Through this incident, I came to know that Bapu ji is very shy of me. The flow of shame was very deep in both of us. When I went to India from Canada, for the first time Bapu ji told me one thing.
"Thank you dear that your clothes has not changed." It should be the same even today as it was before. ''
I was surprised that Bapu ji told me this.
I have never done makeup and never wore any jewel. The clothes were also very simple, and today for the first time I came to know that Bapu ji did not like the same things. This was the first time Bapu ji spoke to me for me.
When Bapuji came to Canada, I said this to me there another time.
"Daughter, as you have handled your home, seeing this understanding of you, today I tell you one thing that you are my ideal woman".
I looked at Bapu ji's face and hugged Bapu ji.
 When Bapu was taking his last breaths, his last words.
"Daughter, I care a lot about you, you don't have the world as you are, what will happen to you?"


Bapu ji
Bapu ji's skin color was very fair and peach colored aura came out of the skin. Kamali-Ramli (very simple style) was a turban. Bapu ji's shyness used to add beauty to Bapu ji's nature. Bapu was very shy.
Our relationship was with the father and daughter, more than that we were also pearls for each other. Bapu ji's nature was so decent that he also became my ideal-man.
Even today, a lot of time has passed for Bapu ji, but even today, he is alive in me, as if he was not dead, it seems as if I have the illusion that Bapu ji was dead. It is a miracle to be so close even after death. I never missed him.
Even today we cannot sit and drink tea together - but still it seems that he is with me forever.
Because love is such a vibe, the more love has depth and purity, the more love never lets the feeling of love go away.
Whatever the relationship is, 
the foundation is only love and trust, 
just like perfection 
when the relationship
 becomes the Ideal


Today, blessing all the fathers on Father's Day so that they always give children understanding of healthy thinking!



मैंने हैरान थी कि मैं कभी किसी से भी नहीं शर्माती थी, सिर्फ आपने बाप से शर्माती थी। घर के बाकी किसी भी मर्द से नहीं -सिर्फ बापू जी से , क्यों? यह सवाल मेरे लिए कोई नहीं हल कर सकता था, सिर्फ वक़्त का इंतज़ार था। 
इस को वक़्त कहूं या समझ कहूं; मेरे लिए दोनों एक ही हैं। 
मैंने एक बार देखा कि कमरे में मैं और बापू जी रह गए।  हम दोनों खाना खा रहे थे।  बीबी कुछ लेने के लिए बाहर गई।  मैंने देखा कि मेरी नज़र और बापू जी की नज़र एक हुई तो हम दोनों ने ही झट से नीचे देखना शुरू कर दिया। अभी मैं सोच रही थी कि मैं बाकी का खाना बाहर जा कर खाती हूं , पर मेरे से पहले बापू जी उठ कर बाहर चले गए। 
इस वारदात से मैं जान गई कि बापू जी भी मेरे से बहुत शर्माते हैं।  हम दोनों में लज्जा का प्रवाह  बहुत गहरा था। जब मैं कनाड़ा से इंडिया गई, तो पहली बार बापू जी ने मेरे को एक बात कही। 
'' शुक्र ऐ dear कि आप का पहरावा बदला नहीं।  जैसे पहले थी आज भी वैसी ही हो।''
मैं हैरान थी कि बापू जी ने मेरे को यह कहा था। 
मैंने कभी मेकअप नहीं किया और ना ही कभी कोई गहना पहना था।  कपडे भी बस बहुत सादे होते थे।और आज पहली बार मेरे को पता लगा कि बापू जी को भी वैसी चीज़ें पसंद नहीं थी। यह पहली बार बापू जी ने मेरे लिए मेरे से बात की थी। 
जब बापू जी Canada  मेरे पास आये, तो वहां पर मेरे को दूसरी वार यह कहा था। 
'' बेटी, जैसे तुम ने आपने घर को संभालती हो, यह आप की समझ देख कर आज मैं आप को एक बात कहता हूं  कि आप मेरी आइडियल औरत हो ''
मैंने बापू जी के चेहरे की ओर देखा और बापू जी को झप्पी दी। 
 जब बापू जी की आखरी साँसें ले रही थे , उन के आखरी बोल। 
'' बेटी , मेरे को तेरी बहुत फ़िक्र है , जैसी तू हैं ,वैसा संसार नहीं है , तेरा क्या होगा ?''
बापू जी। 
बापू जी का स्किन कलर बहुत गोरा और स्किन में से पीच रंग की आभा निकलती थी।  कमली-रमली पगड़ी होती थी।  बापू जी का शर्माना , बापू जी के स्वभाव की शोभा बढ़ा देता था। बहुत ही शर्मीलेपन से भरे हुए बापूजी थे।  
हमारा रिश्ता बाप बेटी का तो था ही , उस से ज़्यादा हम दोनों एक दूसरे के लिए सुचे मोती भी थे। बापू जी का स्वभाव इतना decent था कि वो मेरे ideal -man भी बन गए।
आज चाहे बापू जी को गए बहुत वक़्त बीत गया पर आज भी वो मेरे में ऐसे ज़िंदा हैं, जैसे कि वो मरे ही नहीं थे, बस ऐसे लगता है कि जैसे मेरे को भ्रम है कि बापू जी मर गए थे।  मरने के बाद भी इतनी  नज़दीकी होनी  एक चमत्कार है।  मैंने कभी भी उन को मिस नहीं किया। 
चाहे आज हम साथ बैठ कर चाय नहीं पी सकते-पर फिर भी ऐसे लगता है कि वो सदा मेरे साथ है। 
क्योंकि प्यार एक ऐसा तत्त है, जितनी प्यार में गहराई और purity होगी, उतना ही प्यार  कभी प्यार भरे एहसास को दूर नहीं होने देता। 
आज सभी बाप को Father's  day  की ऐसी दुआ कि वो सदा आपने बच्चों को तंदरुस्त सोच की समझ दे !

रिश्ता कोई भी हो उस की बुनियाद सिर्फ प्यार और भरोसा है,
 वैसे ही पूर्णता जब रिश्ता आदर्श बन जाता है 

Blessings

Life is God experiencing Self

Thank you to Nature for the feelings she gave me,  the trees, mountains,  her many lakes and oceans,  for the sun sets of color,  the clouds that dance in the sky,  for everything she gives wanting nothing  but love in return!!! Thanks You to The world:  For all the good and bad people  I have encountered along the road,  for the lessons you taught me, even if they where bad,  it was still a good lesson to be learned  and for this I thank you... Blessings!!!

I experience myself as the conscious

'There is no "I" but I.' 'Then is there no "you" but you?' 'I, always I,' 'Gives me to think, I will meditate upon it.' 'Do nothing of the kind!'  'To "meditate" means using split-mind:  just look from within and see  - see  that so it Is!  Stop splitting and stay Whole!' Whatever we may be, we are being 'lived'.  We are not traveling, as we think:  we are being 'travelled'.

What a Spring in my life!

When I am absent there is no Time,  and it is always the present   Today: I will walk through the day with spring in my step,  a smile in my body  and  I will have nothing to say about my healthy life,  wow!  I will enjoy the aroma of nature,  and  the flowering from the inside of me  to the outside of me! Will we go through our day today smiling?

Everything is related to everything else ( We are one )

I will enjoy the travels of my free spirit  and the amazing journeys within my Feelings.  I will wake up fresh,  clear and ready to journey  through the seconds of my life  in my well rested physical body!!!  It always amazes me  how I am all one Mentally,  physically,  emotionally  and spiritually  when I awaken!  Wow!  What a beautiful Journey  and  its Beauty

It is amazing how Infinite we are

When I wake up early and go for a walk early  enough to see the sunrise,  if I keep still and watch for a few minutes  I can actually enter in the moment of this movement.  In all my experience,  I become just Energetic aware that I am here,  standing at this special moment on the surface of this special spot;  and  this spot is going, going for away toward the stars  but very close to me,  then  galaxy, more stars,  more wonderful  - unique and amazing colors  then more universe, more and more billions miles away,  like before Jesus- before birth of this planet,  but close, more close, In me -  in myself.  And  this very moment experiencing the whole universe along with me,  in me  while I feel I am infinite  and  I am beyond the universe

Spend life with who makes you happy ( The real artist )

aelolive.com I will prepare and one day I have a chance...  because of my 'Strong -Courage'  and  'Aroma of my Trust'...  Because my life knows that Courage  and  Trust is the commitment to begin  without any guarantee of success BLESSINGS!!! Every morning we are born again: Every time Shaheer wake up a new her arrives with the new moment This moment: 'She is different than she was yesterday' The time is new because of her feeling, The day is new because of her thinking, The moment is new because of her experience and She is new because of this whole life. Every moment she change, her world changes and she is reborn into what she choose to be in this moment. She is creating her moments today with new clarity, new thought and new meaning.

God is the Source of the intelligent universe

aelolive.com Here, Where all of us exist, Here- right Here, where the two dimensions meet. Natural and spiritual. These dimensions are one. This is pure- real and the holy way... Lets go together for this wonderful and shrine pilgrimage...# 1 * Understanding comes when we, you and I, meet on the same level at the same time. aelolive.com Here, Where all of us exist, Here- right Here, where the two dimensions meet. Natural and spiritual. These dimensions are one. This is pure- real and the holy way... Lets go together for this wonderful and shrine pilgrimage...# 2 When love starts with me, and is given to me freely by me, it sure is easy to remember that it is me that is making memories for me. Life is for living, learning and making memories to create a good day, moment by wonderful moment! aelolive.com * Our thirst is Our guru My preceptor is my thirst, my life, my holy and ascetic practices, and my circumstances. However, the

Ceremony (Who are you)

The Gift: Life is a ceremony where we are here as friends and families to celebrate this occasion. Today’s accelerated moments which we gain from our advance technology has enabled us to travel through the universe, and strengthens our thirst of life.    I am fortunate enough to see and meet you all. The uniqueness of this celebration is that we ourselves are hosts and guests, So today we are meeting, with wishes of peace and happiness.  In this ceremony of life, my heart wished to present a gift. The gift should be of something which can bring hope of a happy life.    With     the grace of God, a pure thought was born which I am gifting today.   A new, unique and virgin view of point, with which we will encounter life.  Wise have said, “If our first step is placed with understanding then our destination becomes easier, and also our path, pleasant.” Paint your own portrait, then you will realize.How difficult it is, to give yourself any face This line

Enjoy the beauty of a silence. (purity )

O, My Naughty Shaheer! First, I see you. You are always in My sight. And then I guide you lightly. Sometimes strongly. I hold a sword of love, and with this sword, I vanquish all ills that never belonged in your heart in the first place. I vanquish ill will. I vanquish all that which is opposed to love. Beloveds, in My Presence, what can you do but love? What barrier to love can exist when you are surrounded by My love, and you sink into My love. You float on a raft o f My love. Where else would you want to be? Where else is there for you to be? There is nowhere else but right here right now with Me. Do not bow. Jump instead. God is with you. This is an occasion for joy. Be joy then and forevermore, for I am always with you, and you are always with Me. Oneness is Our lot! Oneness is Our fortune. Oneness is Our Reality. It is the only Reality that is. You and I are One Experience!!! Always Your from Heart, The Sprightliness